Kalbaern said, " when it's nolonger fun, it's time to move on. I've heard sunlight is good for most of us anyhow.
'> well said.
I can completely understand not wanting to fleece a server pop. or player/s as "hardcore" and to be avoided but...are good RP'ers being talked of, or players who are merely hardcore? (I.E. overtly selfish, unyielding, clique like and favoring their RP over the efforts of others, too emotionally attached to a fantasy/character(there is a prognosis for that) If a player is great at RP but fosters within there play too many or too great an extent of these traits...does it create a balance for some? I would like to know what others think.
D&D was and I am to assume still is, game,a game to be played by a group (it is indicated that this group be agreeable if not outright friendly) a group of friends playing a game, a game called D&D, period. There is no other way to describe it I.M.H.O.
I do recall that while being a D.M. and admin. team member on a successful PW that a core of players that had played PnP with the mods builder for many years in past thought they they were entitled to dictate to DM's ,and even other players how they were to RP and even how the story would go. They would send PM's without my knowledge to the builder who would tell them he trusted his dedicated staff and would back them accordingly. That lead to more disgruntlement and would consume more time and take away from the FUN aspect.
After the builder/host retired from NwN the mod was given to these old friends who chased off the only two DM's that ran events (tho I know one good soul stayed) and chased off a player base that used to attract double digits. The server in question is always on 0 when I look at gamespy...is there any wonder.
Even tho the folks I speak of could be excellent at RP and writing their backstories ext. with their selfishness and cliquishness they ran off more players then they were worth, very sadly. I know this has happened other places and it is a shame that grown people cannot leave their bigotry, close mindedness and lack of any kind of humility at the door...I apologize for rant.
"Hardcore" itself may be a term undeserved but I understand the apprehension completely when someone offers this term as a description of a group of players.
Remaining neither less or greater then anyone...I will let things be as they are!