game crashes after i die and load the save in multiplayer

[Legacy_Angelzbl0od]

               the title basically says it all i am playing multiplayer with a buddy online and when one of us dies and i (the party leader) go to load the game my game crashes to desktop and my buddy is sent to the main menu.        

we are playing the pool of radience module

we also seem to be gettin alot of strange crashes like anytime we alt tab

i was reading on here about some problems with running it on 7.............

i have the  Good old games version does that make any difference because i am running on windows 7 x64 and have had no problems other than the ones listed

any imput would be greatly appreciated
               
               

               
            

[Legacy_bussinrounds]

               I'm posting this up in the general section and at GOG too since it's been 12 hours and only a couple of views here.  ( i'm his buddy , btw )