I'd just like to point out that the people who posted above include some of the most successful PW's in the history of NWN. I recommend that you try them first. I was addicted to Ravenloft Prisoners of the Mist forever... I can personally vouch for that one being an excellent server. I've heard a lot of good about the others above as well.
Like they said, the main thing is to try a few different ones before you decide which one to stick with. They are all very different and very customized. Play each for a few days at least so that you get a better sense of the world and the players. Try not to get discouraged if you run in to a mean player when you first start... There's a good chance that he's the exception and the other players are cool.
Also keep in mind the difference between IC (In Character) and OOC (Out of Character).
In most Roleplay PW's, you're expected to remain IC as often as you can. That means that if someone is being a jerk, it may just be that their character is a jerk. Often, if you send them a private message, they'll be very friendly OOC. They don't have to be always 'In Character' in private tells, so use them any time you have an OOC question.
I'd recommend my server, but it's still being built...
Sounds like you already have plenty of good choices here though.
Modifié par wyldhunt1, 14 décembre 2011 - 01:00 .