icywind1980 wrote...
I think I'd better just stick to Guild Wars at this point anyway. Every time I find a good server. One I can actually RP on and not just enjoy hack n slash, it goes away, quickly. Or the people change when they find out I'm a female. It always happens.
If you mean "People thought I was a man but they started treating me differently after they learned that I'm a woman," that's to be expected. Certain things that guys might blab about with other guys--sports, porn and such--tend to get brushed under the rug whenever a woman's around, whether out of chivalry or a lack of perceived common ground. Men are from Mars, women are from Venus and all that.
But if you mean "The guys are treating me poorly and either coming on to me or treating me like I'm useless now that they've found out which sex I am," then yeah, you probably need to find another crowd. We have a female player over on the Pirate Isles server, her characters tend to be very well-written and all the other players love her. Alas, the server also has several areas in Serôs (the Undersea regions of the Sea of Fallen Stars), and most of her characters avoid the underwater areas, while my sea priestess is usually off exploring the depths somewhere or another. The last time that happened, that player and I ended up "singing" various songs from The Little Mermaid to each other via Tells.
So she's definitely one of the crowd on our server. Apparently, women go with pirate-related servers like, well, mermaids and sirens and pirate chicks go with pirate stories. And these forums lack a pirate smiley, so have a ninja instead!