Welcome back to the worlds of NWN. '>
I have a PW to recommend, but a couple of things don't necessarily line up with your list. Let's see...
RP/RP LITE: I certainly DO enjoy some good and heavy RP... BUT. As long as it is not pretentious and pedantic with everyone firing off nasty heraderp tells if someone makes a mistake. Good, lighthearted RP is welcome, having to feel like I need to report to some pimp in a garbage pseudo-political climate complete with premade cliques running a server is lame. Characters with elaborate backstory is far less important to me than people improvising playing characters with obvious personality flaws and fully embracing them. Servers full of metagamers with "perfect" role model characters planning to become mayor are obnoxious and boring for me.
Preferably Low Magic, challenging and HCR-ish (not to a ridiculous degree, but challenging). Also preferably with a good and interesting story to solo when there isn't the possibility of group play. Hopefully a server which is not a ghost town that still has players that enjoy NWN.
- Challenging, HCR-ish, solo-friendly: Yes.
- Low magic, involved scripted story: No.
PnP focus. I'm an old school D&D geek and am not interested in servers made by people that hate D&D, nor want to make something else of the experience.
One thing that is important to me, and a problem I had on various servers in the past, is about metagaming. It has been a problem in two ways, the obvious one (players using information their character wouldn't have), but ALSO the opposite (servers hiding information a player's character SHOULD have). I think this problem came to attempt to remedy metagaming but ended up causing additional problems and added more fuel to the issue with cliques etc. One thing I'd like to avoid is servers with lots of little behind the scenes "secrets" that only a handful of close friends can access... after all it's just another form of metagaming. As a player I want to have all information available to me, I am mature enough to separate what I know from my character. Hiding info like that has just created too many awkward situations and only serves to inhibit RP. Would be interesting to see what people running PW's think about this.
Mostly a fit by the sounds of it, so downloading the haks could definitely be worth your time. '> There are quite a few, so you might want to check out the website and browse the forum.
The World of Aenea: www.amethyst-dragon.com/nwn
Good luck in your search!